Often when we went to the grave during the first couple of years, we would find little gifts there. We never knew who had put them there. Some of them we were able to keep. Only today I got a message from a friend who I haven’t seen in years, but who walked those early days with us. She said: “The girls and I used to visit when they where little. Im embarrassed to say that they usually popped one of their McDonalds toys on… So if you where wondering why they where their it was us!” 🙂

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